Sunday, June 27, 2010

Motivation for leaders

Recently, I was conducting a workshop on Leadership for a group of young, enthusiastic Managers. I was delighted to see their bright and bubbly faces gleaming with a lot of enthusiasm, waiting for me to come out with the next line of encouragement.

While discussing Motivation for Leaders, we talked about various ways of motivation, intrinsic and extrinsic motivators, de-motivators etc. and something highly motivating for me emerged by the end of the workshop.

I have always been able to relate to Maslow’s need hierarchy theory in my own ways; and have felt that it is possible for a person to be at all or any one or more of the five levels (as described in the theory & depicted in the picture given here). Someone who’s at the self-actualization stage could still have some physiological needs and vice-versa for all levels of needs. But keeping various levels of needs in consideration, how can one increase intrinsic motivation for oneself & others?
Simple- do and make others do the following things:

1. See dreams, chart a path for yourself

2. Have a vision and let no hurdle obscure your vision

3. Look at the larger picture-don’t act by looking at the tip of the ice berg

4. Aspire for higher level needs, aim at self actualisation - Someone who’s at self actualisation stage, would be mature, honest, and an able leader. His intrinsic motivation shall naturally be high & external motivators or de motivators shall play negligible role on his spirits. We must try ourselves and encourage others to look at something bigger and better.

5. Yearn for a holistic life

By the end of the workshop, in the feedback session, one of the participants said that he would go back to his location and immediately apply this learning on a teammate who was senior in age, worked well but lacked the motivation to do better since money and power failed to motivate him. The participant felt confident that this learning would help in motivating his not so motivated teammate. And this response was quite a motivational experience for me:)

Your comments, queries shall add to this motivation:))

Sunday, June 6, 2010

Positive Attitude

Thomas Edison was 67 years of age when his lab caught fire and everything was in flames. He was laughing aloud and his son thought he had a nervous breakdown because his lifelong work was destroyed. Then Edison told his son “ Charles, there is a great value in disaster; thank God, all are mistakes are burnt and we can start afresh.” Within a week, he invented the phonograph successfully.  This is the winner’s attitude.
I’m sure no explanation is required about the need to have Positive Attitude. Let’s have a look at some of the effects our attitude has on our body: 
Negative:
  • Creates harmful chemicals in blood
  • Damages brain cells
  • Increases chances of deadly diseases
 Positive:
  • Creates chemicals that boost energy and happiness
  • Increases life span upto 120 years
  • Helps in fighting deadly diseases. Cancers of last stage are getting cured with PA and HIS grace.
But how do we change our attitude from negative to positive? How do we stay positive in the face of adversities? A few points to do so-
1. Have noble objectives, they shall inspire you to keep moving positively.
2. Power of repetition: Repeat self affirming messages to yourself everyday like, today I shall not be disappointed, today I shall look for good in everyone I meet. More on this in my earlier post on
 http://deepali-enlightenment.blogspot.com/2010/03/thought-management.html
3. Be the captain of your ship: Take charge of yourself as the captain takes charge of his ship under all circumstances. More on http://deepali-enlightenment.blogspot.com/2010/03/thought-management.html
4. Get charged up: How do we charge our mobile phone? It gets charged on getting connected to an electrical connection. How do we charge ourselves? By connecting with the Divine GOD through-
  • Prayers, Meditation                                  
  • Moving on the path shown by HIM
  • Talking to GOD like we talk to a very dear one
6. Look at the larger picture:
  • Remember that God has sent you with a divine purpose
  • Don’t waste time and energy on petty things 
  • Look at everyone as God’s creation and treat him with love and respect
  • Forget and forgive
  • Remember that it is between you and HIM
7. Leave the place where others are indulging in negative conversation like abuse, idle gossip, criticism etc., it’ll save you from negative charges.
8. Look at failures and problems as blessings in disguise. HE wants you to do better and knows that you can do it.
9. Read at least one page of inspiring book every day:
http://deepali-enlightenment.blogspot.com/2010/03/in-life-is-it-important-to-be.html 
10. Watch inspiring movies.
11. Always sit and walk with your back straight. It will strengthen your confidence and inner strength.
12. Smile with your heart, God blesses through your smile.

You do your best, HE will do the rest.

Do leave your ideas, comments, questions to keep me positive:)