Thursday, September 6, 2012

When in stress, tell yourself- this too shall pass


In today’s time, stress seems to be an inevitable part of life.  Be it work or relationships,  there are situations that are difficult and strenuous to deal with. Yet at times I wonder if we have formed a compulsive habit of being under stress or performing better under stress. Maybe yes. Having said that, we can not close our eyes to the ill effects of stress on our body, mind and entire life. It not just a cause of many fatal diseases, but is also antithesis to the very purpose of our being- being happy. Is the purpose of life not to be happy? Yes, it is in all respects, what use is the wealth, fame and achievement if one is not happy. But how does one do this? Be happy despite all tension and volatility in work & people’s moods? Yes, it is possible and doable.

We just need to remember and practice two things-
1.Tell yourself that this too shall pass. No matter how difficult the situation be, it is difficult only for the time being; and it has come to you because you are the one who can handle it well. Even if the whole world including yourself has a doubt on your ability, someone up there has full faith in you and will work with you if you hold on to Him with utmost faith that in the end all will be well for you.

2. Strengthen just one relationship- the relationship with Almighty. If this one relationship is strong, rest all relationships and things will fall in place. And for this again, patience and faith are the key words. Let no problem daunt your relationship with God.  Share with Him every minutest thought and pray earnestly not just for resolving your hardships but for His grace. Come what may make sure this relationship is serenely unscathed.
Stay happy, be stressfree:)